I was once asked to consider taking a new job in the organization I worked for at the time. I decided that getting counsel from some other people would make sense. But a business leader outside our organization was shocked that I would ask others' opinions.

Is it just me, or do toddlers seem to have a built-in independence muscle? How many times have we heard a three year old say, “I do it!!”? The problem is, we don’t grow out of it! We just put a more adult spin on it. It must be a result of the fall of humanity! 

We know that community is a vital idea for us as God’s people. But how do we make the most of it? How do we tell if we’re experiencing the fullness of fellowship the way God designed it?